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My current schedule is packed. I’m the founder of Capital Markets Dad and the Head of Sales at Answir. But more importantly, I’m a husband and dad.

The tug to be present in all of them, at the same time, is real.

Most days, I'm moving so fast that I don’t even know if the pace is actually working or hurting me.

So, I asked myself a question: How busy is too busy?

I still don't have a clean answer. But asking the question slowed me down enough to at least look around. Maybe it’ll do the same for you.

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So here's a quick audit. It’s just three questions worth sitting with.

1. What's running on autopilot that shouldn't be? I’m talking about relationships and conversations. These are the things that need you to be present, not just physically in the room.

2. What would be the first thing to break? If you held this pace for another 90 days, in what area would the wheels inevitably fall off? If the answer comes to you quickly, that's worth paying attention to.

3. What are you tolerating that you haven't named yet? Think about the low-grade friction you've stopped noticing. It hasn’t gone away; you’ve just become numb to it.

You already know what needs to change. This just helps you admit it.

One More Thing…

A lot of you have forwarded this to colleagues, partners, and peers.

Some of them are women doing the same balancing act without a space built for them.

Can you take a second to vote below?

Do you know a woman working in capital markets who'd want a space like this built for her?

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— Andrew

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